A Father’s Step-by-Step Guide to the Child Arrangements Order

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Child Arrangements Order – Introduction

Child Arrangements Order (CAO) is the way to go when disputes between parents arise over children post-separation. Navigating the legal landscape can be complex and emotionally challenging. CAO is a legal process that determines where a child will live, who they will spend time with, and other aspects of their upbringing. In this guide, we’ll walk through the process of applying for a CAO, from mediation to court hearings and assessments.

Mediation as the First Step

The journey typically begins with mediation, where both parties attempt to resolve issues without going to court. Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings (MIAMs) are offered to ensure both parties are aware of the process. If successful, an agreement is reached, and the process ends here.

MIAM Certificate and Moving Forward

In cases where one party refuses to engage in mediation or if mediation proves unsuccessful, the mediator issues a MIAM certificate. This certificate allows the aggrieved party to proceed to court for a CAO.

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Court Application and Initial Hearing

With the MIAM certificate in hand, the applicant can apply to the court for a Child Arrangements Order. Within a few weeks, they receive a case number. The court then makes a referral to CAFCASS.

CAFCASS Safeguarding Call and Checks

CAFCASS serves as the eyes and ears of the court. They conduct a safeguarding call with each parent, complete police and social services checks, and write a safeguarding letter with their findings.

First Hearing and Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA)

At the FHDRA, parties submit Position Statements outlining their position.

The court may issue an order here if the matter is straightforward — or defer for further steps in complex cases.

Fact-Finding Hearing or S7 Report

When allegations arise, the court may schedule a Fact-Finding Hearing or ask CAFCASS to complete a Section 7 Report — both of which require careful preparation to ensure the court hears your side of the story.

Second Hearing and Possible Final Order

At the second hearing, the court uses the gathered evidence to issue a final order — unless the case is complex (e.g. involving DV or safeguarding), in which case it may extend further.

Child Arrangements Order – Conclusion

The CAO process can be daunting — but each step helps the court build a picture of what’s best for the child. Mediation, assessments, hearings… they all lead toward a stable, child-focused resolution.

Navigating the Child Arrangements Order as a Dad?

Dads’ Consultancy, led by social work experts, is here to guide you through the process with personalised support. Our team simplifies the journey from mediation to final orders, always prioritising your children’s well-being. Connect with us today for compassionate assistance — because every dad deserves support in securing the best future for their children.

🧠 Insider Insight: Lach, our founder, is a qualified social worker who used to write Section 7 reports for CAFCASS — the very reports that influence court outcomes. Now he helps dads respond to them. Learn more about Lach’s background.

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